Is there someone you want to forgive? Something on your mind you want to let go of? A relationship you want to feel lighter around? Maybe you want to forgive yourself for something that happened last week, or decades ago.
I’m Mordechai, and around five months ago, I learned a forgiveness process that's genuinely changed my life. It’s helped me forgive grudges I’ve been holding for decades and months, and I want to share it.
If you carry a lot, feel deeply, or simply want to experience more lightness, you’re invited to an evening of forgiveness. You don’t need a specific person in mind to join, or share personal details for this process to work. We’ll go through an experience of letting go together, so you can experience it for yourself and take it with you to use whenever you need.
This work is about going back to the experience and giving it the attention it never got. Saying what was never said. Acknowledging what was avoided. Forgiving, apologizing, owning your part, even when it is with yourself. Getting into the real details instead of circling around them. When that happens, there is no longer a reason for the loop to keep running. The story settles. The mind quiets. You feel more at peace. More present. More like yourself, without the broken record playing in the background.
Have you ever noticed how certain people, moments, or experiences keep looping in your mind, almost like you cannot get them to stop? Over time, that loop starts shaping how you think, choose, and respond. All filtered through an old story of what happened, as if a past version of you is still shaping your responses now. Instead of being with what is actually here, your responses are filtered through an unfinished experience, and so the loop continues. As you give it space, the loop starts to close. Not because the hurt did not happen, but because you stop creating from the past and start being with life as it is.
This is for you if something keeps looping in your mind. A person. A moment. A relationship. Maybe you know exactly what it is. Maybe you just feel the weight of it. You do not have to be ready to forgive. You do not have to know what it will look like. You only have to be willing to slow down, look at what is there, and give it your attention. Letting go does not mean saying what happened was okay. It means you are no longer willing to carry it. It means choosing yourself.
Join experiences thoughtfully designed to educate, inspire, and guide you toward confident, well-structured decisions.
A guided gathering designed to help you release what has been weighing on you.
A small, intentional circle where listening matters more than speaking.
An evening focused on slowing down. Through guided prompts and quiet moments, you’ll be invited to notice what you’re holding.
If you’re curious about how the Circle works, you’ll find answers here.
No, you can join as long as you're interested in learning more about the process, often someone pops into mind when you start. You just need to come with an open mind to the evening.
A notebook, pen, and an open heart
Each session is 2 hours. With a 30-minute buffer to arrive before.
Right now, circles are free as I'm refining the process. I'm planning to charge for future sessions once the work is fully tested. Currently, circles are held in a comfortable setting in my Jerusalem home.
Not more than 10
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The process is an internal guided process in which you do not need to share anything during the evening. It will work the same whether you choose to share or not.
The intensity is proportional to how open you are. You control how far you go. The work moves emotion gently and you stay in the driver seat the entire time.
You may or may not. Whatever you bring is welcome. You control the depth, and can stop anytime if you feel uncomfortable.
Click join the circle and enter your email and phone number. We'll keep you posted on upcoming groups.
This work is powerful but not a replacement for therapy. If you're actively processing severe trauma or in crisis, it's best to work with a therapist first or check with your therapist to make sure it's okay for you. During the session, if you feel activated or overwhelmed, you can pause or step out anytime.
The space is designed to be cozy and comfortable with cushions and pillows for seating, a calm environment where you can relax. What's shared in the circle stays in the circle, and confidentiality is agreed upon and respected.
In my experience, most people I was forgiving didn't feel the need to contact them after the work. I did reach out to maybe 10% of the people I forgave, but even with those, contacting them felt like the cherry on top, and coming from a mostly neutral place. So in short it's up to you.
You may feel elated, free and light, with the charge and heaviness around the person or experience noticeably lighter. You could also feel emotionally wobbly for 24-48 hours as energy moves through you. That's normal. You'll feel back to yourself after that.
Most people report feeling lighter and freer after the process. You'll feel it. If the shift feels minimal, it could be that the group setting didn't allow what needed to come up, the work needs more time or deeper focus on a specific part of the forgiveness, or you're not fully ready to let it go yet. Running the process again on your own usually deepens the work.
I'm not a therapist or expert in forgiveness, and I don't have any degrees in this type of work. If anything, I'm a former expert in holding grudges. I created this through 100+ hours of personal forgiveness work, tinkering, and refining this process. And it's ongoing, I'm still learning as I continue to do this work with myself and others. I'm just someone who figured out a way to help myself and felt compelled to share it.
This work is focused on the internal human experience of heaviness we can feel and letting go. It's not rooted in any religious tradition, though forgiveness is a meaningful part of Judaism and this work honors that. Best to consult a rabbi if you're interested in Jewish perspectives and halacha on forgiveness. This work complements Jewish law and doesn't replace it.
